The Boys Are Fine

Allow and encourage online work

Written by William Draves | Oct 5, 2026, 9:00:00 AM

Happy Monday. Moms, dads, foster parents, mentors - - here's your tip of the week. 

Allow and encourage online work. Instead of saying “playing on the computer” ask your boy “what are you working on........ your computer/laptop/pad/cell phone.”

For boys, computers and cell phones are not just "playing," they are (unconsciously) preparing for their future in the workplace.  Video games are a proven way for internal surgeons to practice the dexterity needed for surgery.   Video games have prepared thousands of young men to pilot drones for the defense of their country.